Resolution, Schmesolution | Confessions of a Stay-At-Home Mom

January 1, 2010

Resolution, Schmesolution

I'm not big on New Year's Resolutions.

Some people live by them, and I'm here to support you in your endeavors. For me, though, New Year's Resolutions tend to be unrealistic, self-defeating disingenuous goals. Sometimes, we even make goals just for the sake of having a goal to spout off when asked, "What is your New Year's Resolution?"

As for me, there are no resolutions this year.

Blah, I know.

BUT, I do have some things I am excited to incorporate into my life. I feel that looking at New Year's in this light helps to make any changes you want to make manegable. I'm not committing to SOME BIG THING, which can intimidate us from the goal right off the bat. I just want to add fruit to my life. And no greater time to start than the present!

So, I wanted to share some of the things I am excited about adding to my life this year. My goal in doing so is to experience fullness, enrichment and joy. It is inevitable that these incorporations will affect my blogging. When I am excited, I blog about it. Some of the new life areas will be a fun addition to my weekly posts (and we can hopefully grow and be excited together)!

Things Steph Is Excited About In 2010

1) Locally Sourced Food/Sustainable Eating/Eating in Season. It's hard to seperate these ideas, so I had to clump them together. Had you asked me a year or 2 ago about this topic, I'd most likely have no idea what you were talking about. But as we grow more in love with our town, have a growing family and an increased involvement in the West Chester Grower's Market, I can't help but become more committed to this cause. I will be the first to admit I know little about farming, "going green," "organic living," or however you'd like to label this idea. But it's becoming more important to me. And that needs to be reflected in my life. I'm not sure how or what it will look like, but I hope you'll follow me as I chronicle the journey!

2) Starting a Garden. This pairs well with #1. But now that we have the means (ie: land/space) to grow a garden, I want to make it happen this year. For the past 2 years, Hubby and I have employed some patio/flower pot gardening techniques. Some have been fruitful. Others have gone to the dogs (or deer. Or squirrels. Either way, they got the veggies before we did. Jerks). We have a great base for a gardening space, and now it is just a matter or ordering the seeds! Actually, that's only the beginning. We have some garden planning/building/lay out to consider and work on. Then it's a matter of getting the seeds ready, the soil ready, planting...then hoping for the best. I'll share with you my adventures as a first time gardener!

3) Starting a Compost Pile. I'm still researching how to go about this, as it is not as easy as throwing away all of your edible trash into a pile. But composting is a great habit to get into, as it is healthier for the earth AND gives you great soil for gardening (see #2)!

4) Reducing My Meat Consumption. I'm not talking anything drastic, like going vegetarian (but props to you out there who are!). As I've researched #'s 1-3, I can't deny the information I've found about the ovewhelming demand our society has for meat/poultry, and how reducing it in your diet is better for your health. Still researching this, but our family goal is to try 1 Meatless Meal per week. A great movement that is encouraging people with this very idea is Meatless Mondays. Check it out. Let me know if you're up for the challenge - but I WILL post more Meatless Recipes!

5) Read More. I don't read enough. I'd like to read more. I enjoyed having the opportunity to review 2 cookbooks recently - so I hope to expand that to more genres of literature and share with you my thoughts on what I read!

6) Creating Recipes From Scratch. I love the pursuit of new recipes, as you may know if you read this blog. I will continue pursuing new and exciting recipes this year (so don't stop sending them to me!), but I want to challenge myself to be more in tune with the cooking process. I want to understand what flavors and ingredients go well together. So, I will be experimenting more, and attempting some creations sans recipes. Wish me luck. If any turn out, I will share the concoction with you!

7) Staying Active. I'd like to be more physically active than I was last year. I will be honest (and not ashamed): It was difficult for me to jump right back into a rigorous fitness lifestyle after having Little Chica. Some women have bodies (and energy levels) that bounce back immediately after giving birth, looking like they'd never carried a child in that flat tummy of theirs. Between the demands of a baby, less opportunities to go to the gym (or, having a child who really didn't like being left in the babysitting area), lack of energy, and sheer laziness, I was overall not as active as I'd like to have been. Toward the end of 2009, I picked up the pace a bit, and was happy with the results. This "goal" is not about the look of my body, but rather, the HEALTH of my body. I want to increase my energy, stamina, and overall healthiness. If I have ANY "goal" in 2010, it is to compete in a formal race. Not a marathon. Maybe more along the lines of a 5K. And we'll work on up from there :)

As I read what I've written, I realize it may sound like I've gone off the deep end. Images of long hair, chanting and entering a hippy commune might come to mind. This is not the case. The things you read above have just become more important to me, and I want that to be reflected in my life. I do not have any set goals or criteria to "assess my progress." I may not blog about each idea weekly, or even monthly. On the other hand, some things I might blog about daily! Regardless, as each activity impacts my life, I will share my stories with you.

*What "Things" do you want to add to your life in 2010? *

I'd be really interested to hear all about it!

Would you consider leaving a comment with YOUR list?

As you do, my hope is that more and more people add their list - and we can become encouraged by what others are striving for this year (or perhaps you'll even find someone who is interested in the same thing, and you can go on the journey together!)

Happy New Year!


  1. Having 1 meatless meal per week is a great way to save money too! Good luck with all your goals for the year. I ran my first 5K last March and if they have that race again this year I'm going to run. Maybe you can come out and run with me. Keep an eye out for my "resolutions", I was just about to get to work when I saw this post. Happy New Year!

  2. I don't really have a resolution....just goals I am working toward. That's like the same thing, right?

    My 2010 goals:

    *1. Get my traveling in this year (before I start having kids in a few years)

    *2. Eat Healthier (not change my diet completely, but make a few adjustments)

    *3. Creating my own recipes

    *4. Try to be less negative/more postive, and to not get frustrated easily.

    *5. Take some baking classes

    *6. Be more active

    *7. Become friends with my sewing machine.

  3. P.S. Here is a cool link I found. It is New Years Baking/Cooking for everyone month of the year.

  4. Steph, I think you and I are on the same brain wave or something because your goals very closely resemble my own.

    -I have a little space that I could use for gardening and feel that I should utilize it...especially with all my cooking

    -I'm very interested in eating fresh and eating local...I saw a somewhat disturbing documentary called "Food Inc" recently that really challanged my thinking about where my food comes from.

    - Piggy backing on that...I'd like to figure out how to budget more organic higher quality ingredients into our budget. And also having more meatless meals, like you talked about.

    - I want to be more active, so that my lower back gets stronger.

    - And finally, I want to start creating my own recipes (hence my reading "How to Cook without a Book"

    Thanks for sharing...I may just need to post on these goals myself...I didn't realize how excited I was about them!


Hey! Share a thought or two - I'd love to hear from you! ~ Steph

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