Confessions of a Stay-At-Home Mom

October 1, 2014

Giant Food Stores Buy Theirs Get Ours Free (and a $25 Gift Card GIVEAWAY!)




Giant Food Stores is at it again!

It's time for another Buy Theirs Get Ours Free promotion. Are you not familiar? It's MY FAVORITE. 
I've shared about it a few times over the past couple months. Giant wants the world to know how awesome their Own Brand store brand is compared to the national brand. So, they are giving YOU a chance to try Own Brand products - for free!

During the next 2 weeks, you'll have two chances to try Own Brand products when you buy their national brand counterparts. It doesn't take long to realize that the Own Brand is of the same caliber of the national brand - but at a much nicer price tag.

I've been a Giant Brand Fan for as long as I can remember. So when Giant started this promotion, I was STOKED. I weekly save anywhere from $15-$30 buy using my bonus card and buying Own Brand store brand products. I can't let myself shop anywhere else!

Are you ready to take the challenge and become a #GiantBrandFan? Here is what they are offering the weeks of 9/28-10/4 (that's this week!) and 10/5-10/11:





Week of September 28th - October 4th 2014


  • Buy Nestle Chocolate Chips ( 12oz), get Own Brands Chocolate Chips (12 oz) FREE
  • Buy Ocean Spray Cranberry Juice (64 oz), get Own Brands 100% Cranberry Juice (64oz) FREE
  • Buy Mucinex (20 ct or 6 fl oz) , Get Own Brands Mucus Fast Max (20 ct or 6 fl oz) FREE
  • Buy Sabra (All varieties, 10 oz) , Get Own Brands Simply Enjoy Hummus (All varieties, 10 oz) FREE

Week of October 5th - October 11th 2014


  • Buy DiGiornos Rising Crust Pizza (27.5 - 33 oz oz pkg), get Own Brands Rising Crust Pizza C (28.2 - 32.7 oz oz pkg) FREE
  • Buy Nabisco Ritz Crackers (13.7 oz), get Own Brands Classic Crackers (15.1 oz) FREE
  • Buy Pillsbury Ready to Bake Cookies (16 – 16.5 oz) , get Own Brands Break ‘n Bake Cookies(16 – 16.5 oz oz) FREE
  • Buy Charmin Bath Tissue (6 pk, 165 2-ply) , get Own Brands Bath Tissue (6 pk, 176 2-ply) FREE

Friends? 

THIS IS A WIN-WIN!

And even better, Giant Food Stores has provided a $25 gift card to give away to one of my fantabulous readers. Just enter below!

I'd love to hear:

What are YOUR favorite Giant Own Brand products?






September 24, 2014

Lice Lifters: One and Done Natural Treatment for Lice







^^ See this kid? 

This kid is my nightmare. The itching head that, upon closer inspection, turns out to be infested with lice.  It's a common childhood ailment, and many of my friends have endured it as parents. I never had lice as a kid, but I am easily overwhelmed at the idea of having to help my girls through it if they ever contract it. 

I've heard the horror stories of how difficult it can be to get rid of them, the painstaking process of cleaning and combing and treating. And even the heartbreak of when it comes back (sometimes more than once)! Just suggesting it starts the psychosomatic itching. 

As a mom, I want to be prepared for anything that comes my way. 
I feel lucky to live in Pennsylvania, where there is a business whose business is, well, lice! Lice lifting, rather. And they take all the burden and worry off the parents but taking care of the lice problem for you.

HOW AWESOME IS THIS?!



Lice Removal…The Natural Way! Lice Lifters
One Quick Treatment. Done!



Did you know lice activity is traditionally the highest in September and October? Our kids are playing in large groups at school or hunched over one another to get a good look at something. Sports helmets are swapped, coats and jackets get piled together. These are just a few examples of perfect conditions for lice transmission.



Facts: 



  • Lice do not discriminate; the cleanliness of your hair, home, or school has nothing to do with the risk of getting lice. 
  • 1 louse can lay up to 10 eggs (nits) per day. 
  • You cannot get head lice from an animal and your animals can not get it from you, lice need human scalp blood to survive. 
  • Off the human head, lice cannot survive for more than 48 hours. 
  • “Super Lice” and their resistance to traditional over the counter treatments are a pesky problem. Consumers are becoming more aware and informed about the toxic levels of over-the-counter-treatments. 
  • Electronic devices like iPods, iPads and cell phones cause kids to cluster together to view games, videos and movies as do group “selfies”. All of this head to head contact spreads lice easily. 
  • Battling lice at home for weeks at a time is time-consuming, causes stress, causes missed school/work days and is often is ineffective.

For more facts about head lice click here.




Nix, Rid and other over-the-counter products have pesticides in their ingredients? Some contain 4 times the amount of chemicals and pesticide’s as Raid! Pretty scary! Lice are becoming more and more resistant to these chemicals creating the term “Super Lice."  Often people battling lice use these products over and over again and still cannot get rid of lice. Sometimes scalps are burned as a result of over treatment. 

Some prescription and over –the-counter treatments contain chemicals that are no longer permitted for use on crops or animals, yet are allowed for lice treatment. Some of these chemicals and pesticides have been proven to cause cancer, seizures and in some cases death!




Thankfully, now there is an effective, all natural treatment to stop lice in its tracks!


Lice Lifters, America’s fastest growing Lice Removal Franchise is here to help!


Currently Lice Lifters has salons across Pennsylvania and New Jersey and Florida. Lice Lifters uses a patented heated air treatment process which kills 99.2% of the eggs and 87% of the bugs. Technician’s then sends each treated individual home with a custom follow up care program to ensure no new activity occurs. Typically this consists of 2-4 simple Nit Nanny Solution applications (similar to a shampooing) which make the treatment process 100% effective

With Lice Lifters you can feel 100% confident your problem was resolved. Children receive a certificate allowing them to return to school – same day! Lice Lifters Nit Nanny products are all-natural, pesticide free, non-toxic and chemical free.

Lice Lifters technicians are empathetic and efficient. They understand what you are going through. They assess your situation, make you comfortable and get to work. Kids choose a movie, have a snack and the next thing they know, they are on their way home.

If you are looking for the fastest, most reliable, all-natural way to get rid of lice, look no further than Lice Lifters!
To find out more about locations or to inquire about franchise opportunities visit www.licelifters.com.


Lice Lifters also offers package and ala carte services to overnight and day camps, schools and day cares. To find out more please call 1-484-685-1095.




Looking for a Lice Lifters Treatment Center near you?


New Jersey                                                                Pennsylvania
Cranford                  1-800-214-9264                         LayafetteHill      1-484-685-1095
Marlton                    1-856-334-5591                        Lehigh Valley    1-610-443-1462
West LongBranch     1-732-440-4760                         Bucks County    1-267-988-4823 
                                                                                                  Chaddsford         1-610-492-7132
Florida                                                                    Harrisburg         1-717-712-2290
SouthernFlorida       1-610-212-5543






All Lice Lifters products can be purchased via the Lice Lifters site, on Amazon and at independent pharmacies. The Nit Nanny Solution treatment plan eliminates lice, The Nit Nanny Mousse along with The Nit Nanny Comb eliminates the nits, and The Nit Nanny Mint Spray deters lice from returning or visiting in the first place.


Now that you are educated about lice, what to do and what not to do...How about some FUN!

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September 23, 2014

Fear of Failure



My first job out of college was as a caseworker for my county's Children, Youth and Family services. Yes, the people who investigate abused kids and yank kids from unsafe home situations. They also do amazing things like coordinate adoptions and foster families as well as provide respite and other services to people in the community. I was on a less-intense unit that provided services to teenagers who had home issues but were also on probation. Working with me was a part of their probation contract.

It was hard work, and at first I really enjoyed it. But over time, it became tiring. The paperwork, reports and court appearances piled up. And I felt that even after a few years, I was struggling to really find a groove. After the 3 year point, I started dreading work and I became disheartened when past clients came back on my roster.

What good was I really doing? And what was wrong with me that I couldn't be more successful in my work?

I left this job for a brief stint with a faith-based non-profit whose focus was high school kids. I had worked with this organization as a volunteer for several years, and it had been my dream to go on staff with them. I was assigned to a difficult position in a fledgling area with structural and economic issues. In some ways, I felt set up to fail. But shortly after taking up the assignment and moving, I found out I was (unexpectedly) pregnant with Chica. And in this area plagued with difficulties, it was an uphill battle. I was constantly frustrated that I wasn't excelling at this job, a job I had dreamed of working for half of my life.

When Chica was born, Hubby and I were on the same page that I'd stay home with her. I grew up with a SAHM mom, and I guess I'd always assumed that is what I would do when I had kids. Yet, I was not prepared for the lifestyle. To outsiders, the stay-at-home life seems luxurious: lazing around the house with your sweet babe, tackling household tasks with the greatest of ease.

If only this were the case.

I was rudely awakened, when after 3 days home with Hubby he went back to work and I was facing my days (and a new baby) alone. Alone is a word that would best describe my first few months as a new mom. I was bewildered by this wiggling, crying, pooping charge that had been left in my care. I had no idea how to juggle the baby's needs with the daily tasks of cleaning, laundering and getting meals made. Hygiene went out the window. For the life of me, I could not get a handle on taking care of myself as well as taking care of my house and another human. At the time, there were few people I knew who were home with kids, so I just felt lost.

Once again, I felt like I was working at a job I was not cut out for.

Yet, this was my new life.

It took several months to make the transition from "working" to "stay-at-home." And it was a dark road. I eventually eased into my role as Momma, and even went on to have baby #2 a few years later. The truth of the matter is that every mother, whether she is open about it or not, struggles. Some struggle more than others, some hide it better. But we all struggle: with the ups and downs, with the needs, with the responsibility. And, above all, the notion that you were in the process of royally screwing up your children.

About a year after having Bug, I started taking on small chunks of part-time work. Most of the work stemmed from my blogging, leading to freelance writing gigs and social media management opportunities. Over the years, in direct correlation to my kids getting bigger and going to school, I've taken on more and more work. And I now find myself in the position of a new kind of job: Work-at-Home Mom.  We are strange creatures, WAHM's. 90% of my work is at home, with 10% taking me to various meetings or events. (I'll cover the complexities and struggles of being a WAHM in an upcoming post.)

And it is in a job field I feel like I do well in, which makes for happy working.

Sort of.

In taking on this work, which has reached a level of fulltimeness (a phrase I just coined here and now), I feel the familiar strings of ineptness being pulled. I find myself worrying about my performance, if my clients are happy, or if I am in jeopardy of losing work. Being an independent contractor is wrought with uncertainty and instability. My workload changes from month to month. Some months, I am happily overwhelmed, while others I am looking for new work opportunities. And in this, I hear the voices whispering that I am unqualified, ineffectual and temporary. 

So for a while, now, I have struggled with the notion that something is wrong with me. That perhaps I am not really good at anything, that I am not cut out for work. I ruminate on this often. But I was recently struck by a thought that has changed my perspective. 

Yesterday, I was running with two friends, and we were talking about parenting stuff. My one friend was reminiscing on the early months of being a new mom, and how she wished she could go back to live it out differently, now that she knows more. She remarked, "I was just so worried all the time. I was so afraid I would mess up."

And a light bulb clicked for me.

I've spent the better part of my life being afraid of messing up. I live in a constant fear of failure. At my first job, I couldn't just except that I was working in a position that was not a good fit for me. Or that at my second job, the circumstances of the area where I was working were outside of my control. The only option in my mind was that there was something innate to my being that was messing up. I assumed something was wrong with me. I only felt this driven home when I took on the role of being mommy. I spent so much time worrying, so afraid I would mess up yet another "job," and this one being a person! I couldn't embrace that all jobs come with difficulties. I couldn't believe that everyone struggled. Rather, I wallowed in what I felt was my unique ineptitude.

I fear failure because I believe that failing means I am flawed, ineffective, broken and incapable. 

But this isn't true. We all struggle in our various roles in life. We all doubt ourselves or get anxious about our job performance. Most people can embrace that they are not suited for some roles are, or accept that all jobs come with difficulty that just needs to be faced. I, instead, believe the lie that if something isn't working, if something is hard, it's my fault. Which leads to me being very hard on myself (and a heaping load of anxiety to boot). This kind of thinking can easily sink a person.

The truth is: No one is suited for all things. I'm not suited to be a chemistry teacher or a financial advisor or an artist. I'm not skilled in those ways, just as people in those roles may not be suited for writing or social media. Some mothers feel they are at their best when they can stay home with their kids. Others need the professional outlet of working to feel balance in their life. 

I'm learning that it's okay to mess up sometimes, that mistakes won't sink me. I won't always parent perfectly. I will make plenty of grammatical errors in my writing. I will have to face clients who are, for whatever reason, dissatisfied with my performance at times. These are opportunities to learn and grow. 

I'll end with a quote from Book 1 of Game of Thrones (sorry for this temporary geek-out), which struck me deeply as I've been processing these things. Tyrion Lannister is speaking to Jon Snow, and they are reflecting on their various flaws, as society would see it. Tyrion says to Jon,

"Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armor yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you."


I could let my fear of failure completely overcome me. I would be sunk. It could completely paralyze me if I let it. Instead, I can turn this flaw into a strength: to be better, to learn from my mistakes, to have grace with others, to empathize, to grow. 

Friends? 

Whether you are a stay-at-home parent struggling in the role of mommy (or daddy) or doubting yourself in your role at work, embrace this truth: there is no such thing as failure. There is only the opportunity to learn and grow. Let mistakes make your stronger. Let difficulties give you a tender heart to others who struggle.

There is no option to fail. 

Only to grow.

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